Talk About It Tuesday: Oral Sex- How Much Is Fair Play?

Hello, America!
A cliche says that all is fair in love and war. But does that same rule apply in the bedroom? There are men in positions of power that love to be cuckholded and dominated and spanked behind closed doors, while there are 25 year old women pretending to be younger babysitters sneaking to take care of the man of the house instead of the children. That's pretty much only in porn. But in relationships, a mate's goals are to please the other mate. Oral sex plays a massive role in pleasure for most couples. I've known a number of couples that have a chief complaint about the fair play of the lip and tongue action below the belly button.

I have had male partners of my own that can be downright selfish when it comes to giving the clitoris a long kiss goodnight, and I've had female partners that would rather taste the forbidden fruit than to use her lover's mouth as a cup for her own juices. I love to please my mate if they are deemed worthy, and I'm also a huge fan of receiving as well. But it's not my sex life that's in question. There are relationships falling to pieces right now because of the lack of communication about 'sexpectations' and 'sinhibitions'. Why is that?

If a woman craves to the taste of her lover's meatstick then she should be allowed to do so. And if a man wants to take a dive in her muff, then by all means let the man dive! Who are you to stop them? And a better question is WHY WOULD YOU??

I wanna know, America, if your partner would rather give than receive oral sex, how much is fair play? And how do you communicate to him or her that you would love to please them in that way as well as enjoy the work he or she puts into you? Let's talk about it!

Signing off until next week- A. Wiley